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havok4lyfe — 13 years ago(June 28, 2012 11:07 AM)
Wrong!
Any heterosexual male who claims that he has NEVER been attracted to a 17 year old female (or attractive underage females in general) is lying or delusional.
Apparently though, at some arbitrary point that attraction is supposed to turn into revulsion.
Not very realistic or even necessary.
Are there some men who act out on this impulse illegally? Obviously.
Most however, will be able to control themselves or at least are unattractive to said females themselves.
In one respect though, you are partially correct. They shouldn't let their feelings be known as to not "creep out" anyone.
That said, this is the reality. I suggest you deal with it in whatever way you deem necessary and not simply cry, "deviant" for it is obviously not only natural but normal. -
derirre357 — 13 years ago(July 14, 2012 03:19 AM)
All this discussions are so funny LOL Age of consent - so one day before her 18th birthday would be wrong to have sex with her, but one day after it is ok? How about that - we wait till midnight and at 00:01 we get kinky. Oh wait, what if she was born at a time zone 12 hours ahead, but is now living in a time zone 12 hours back? Should we wait another 12 hours?
How about Tracy Lords? She was 16 when she started doing porn and because she had a fake ID that said 18 and she looked older, nobody suspected anything. Are those guys that did it with her perverts? How about people 150 years ago where Age of cocnsent was 10-12? Were they all creeps? If Your great grandma were 15 when she married your great grandpa was he a creep too?
As far as I know the Age of consent is different in different states in the USA - some have it 18, some 16, some 17 So a guy from Alabama (AoC 16) is a pervert, but a guy from California (AoC 18) is not?
According to the Federal law, it is legal for a 15 years old boy to have sex with a 12 years old girl. http://uscode.house.gov/download/pls/18C109a.txt Is that OK with You? Because it is not OK with me, not at all, I wouldn't want my 12 years old angel to have sex with some 15 years old guy, despite being legal. I consider it much, much worse than a 28 years old guy getting it on with my 17 years old daughter.June 29th. I gotta get i shape now
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Tales-from-the-Goondocks — 13 years ago(November 07, 2012 11:30 PM)
No, one day after her 18th birthday it is LEGAL to have sex with her, but not any less creepy. Even in european countries where the age of consent is 15, 16, or whatever, people still see you as a creep if you are 40 and dating a teenager. Your argument doesn't make any sense at all. You are not any less of a creep for dating an 18 yo if you are 30 or 40.
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lukejbarnett2002 — 9 years ago(February 03, 2017 10:39 AM)
ok, what if you don't know how old that she is she looks 18 but she is actually 16. if you don't know her age then how is it wrong to have sex with her? this is precisely why the age of consent should be 15 in America. then guys wouldn't get in trouble for having sex with 15 year old girls.
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DwightFry — 13 years ago(November 21, 2012 05:06 PM)
Given that I was a teen, younger than Juliette actually, back in 1991 when I first watched this movie and fell head over heels in lust for her, would that classify me as a creep or not?
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TheAnimalMother — 12 years ago(May 20, 2013 02:57 AM)
Age of consent in my country is 16, what's the big deal about one year? What is it in your country?
Julia may have been playing a younger character here, but she was actually almost 18 when she filmed these scenes. Let's be honest though, she was hot years before this movie ever came out.
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mrtron81 — 12 years ago(March 20, 2014 05:56 PM)
In the U.S. consent is 18. Now, when I was 18 so long ago, I had sex with a 17 yo. Does that make me a creep?
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lazarillo — 11 years ago(August 19, 2014 12:54 PM)
This is such a stupid thing to worry about. Most people have had sex with someone slightly under 18, usually when THEY were under 18 or just a little bit older. It's probably not an unpleasant memory for them either. So what are you going to do throw them all in jail?
Even setting aside the fact that this was 23 years ago and the actress is actually older than a lot of the "pedos" lusting after her, statutory rape (sex with a girl between 14 and 18) is kind of like robbing a bank. It's illegal and I'm obviously not going to DO it, but I'm not going to disingenuously claim I have no interest in money or feel bad that I might FANTASIZE about it occasionally.
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npiazza91 — 9 years ago(May 01, 2016 01:47 AM)
@lasarillo
I know this was almost two years ago but I have to saythis is one of the most intelligent, insightful posts I have ever read on IMDB. We, as humans, have the right to chooseto NOT do something that is wrong. However, to say it is right or wrong to see something, or view something in a certain way, makes no sense. You make a very good pointthere is a HUGE difference between someone that goes out and robs a bank and someone who thinks about how awesome it would be to do that, but because they are a GOOD PERSON they know they wouldn't ever do something like that. The same concept can be applied to this. There is a difference between someone that has sex with a 14 year old and someone who looks at a 14 year old and thinks he/she is hot. Just because I would love to steal all the money from a bank has absolutely no bearing on whether I would actually do it or not. Why? Because I have MORALS. Thinking about how much I would love to rob it doesn't make me an immoral person. I don't think the OP realizes how many "creeps" there are out there that would never do anything to hurt anyone because they are good people. Family members, work mates, bosses, classmates, teachers, having immoral fantasies are much more common than he/she thinks. Murder, rape, thievery, etcpeople fantasize about it all the time. How many of these people would actually do it? .000001% -
WorthlessKnowledge — 10 years ago(October 26, 2015 08:51 PM)
Despite your angerous feelings, many post stuff on here just to yank your chain.
So lighten up - she was 18 when this was filmed so she was the 'age of consent'
and I like high school girls while I get older, they stay the same.
