I had no idea Bret was gay
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Hulkus — 9 years ago(November 24, 2016 12:58 PM)
You're not an ally just because you go to drag shows and meet a few queens.
Nope, I'm a gay guy who is tired of having the gay stereotype be based off the twink and drag community. I am tired of seeing young teens come out of the closet thinking that that is how you're supposed to act when you realize you're gay. They stop being themselves and live up to the label the twink and drag community made for the gay lifestyle. It's sad and heartbreaking that kids don't have very many role models to look up to when coming out.
Hells yes. I watch RuPaul's Drag Race
OMG ok I'm done having this conversation. You want to see real drags, go to a gay bar that has drag nights sometime. Get involved with the gay community and you'll see what I'm talking about from experience. -
ChocolateButt — 9 years ago(November 24, 2016 01:15 PM)
I may be straight, but I am somehow more accepting and less judgmental than you have shown yourself to be.
You want to see real drags, go to a gay bar that has drag nights sometime. Get involved with the gay community and you'll see what I'm talking about from experience.
Maybe one day when I don't live in a country where being gay is illegal.
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SapphEyeR — 9 years ago(November 24, 2016 05:30 PM)
Do you mind if I ask you, do you personally find men of the "twink and drag" community attractive? Or unattractive? Or doesn't it matter except that you dislike what you think is a just a put-on bid for attention?
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big_kmc — 9 years ago(November 24, 2016 06:12 PM)
Hulkus I see your point but seeing another person's point requires the ability to listen and some intelligence. Any lawyer can tell you that it's way easier to tear down a case made by another lawyer than build a case. To create a perspective is much harder than tearing down another person's. So much for real tolerance! The new tolerance is just pretending you do.
No one perspective is purely right, only authoritarians believe that so people who have brains can say "ok this guy is speaking from his perspective and I can stfu and listen since he is actually gay!" No that would be too sane, can't have that. Instead you have all this lecturing and virtue signaling by an idiot trying to make you feel guilty because you used your own words, not theirs, and spoke from your own experience.
Going back to your original point, thanks for confirming my own observations. It is somewhat a show by these gays, you are right. Because being yourself, and being liked for you is one of the hardest things to do, so it's easier to get behind a mask. Also I know more regular gay guys like Brett but didn't even realize it until you pointed this out. I only have one slightly effeminate gay friend and he's a hair dresser so his clients expect the schmaltz. -
danielgalun — 9 years ago(November 24, 2016 12:09 PM)
Why do you dislike that? Because they're gay or do you dislike it when anyone act a certain way to make other people comfortable? Personally I consider that common courtesy, and I think people who engage publicly in behavior that make people uncomfortable are rude. Sometimes I might not feel like taking a shower or getting dressed, does that mean I should go to a dinner party unwashed in and in my underwear? Social rules apply to everyone, and to make one group exempt from the rules based on their sexuality is discrimination. I do stuff to make other people more comfortable all the time, so I'd expect the same from others.
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MiketheMechanic — 9 years ago(November 25, 2016 09:21 AM)
'Masculine', or 'straight-acting' gay men are the majority. Most gay men go about their everyday business and no one would know, unless they want them to.
What the media portrays and what is real life are two different things.