Now that Enders are also doing the Remembering Berries, what else would…
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Bobby Tomlinson — 1 year ago(December 29, 2024 06:44 PM)
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I don't text very often Bobby and when I do it has to be more casual with maybe a build up to specifics about her viewing habits
Oh I ask people stuff all the time in texts and love it when I get that reply!
I never do however from Chloe…these messages just vanish into the ether.
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∂³∑x² — 1 year ago(December 29, 2024 06:46 PM)
Bobby Tomlinson said...
Oh I ask people stuff all the time in texts and love it when I get that reply! I never do however from Chloe…these messages just vanish into the ether.
Do you know anyone else who knows her Bobby?
Is she OK
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Bobby Tomlinson — 1 year ago(December 29, 2024 06:50 PM)
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Do you know anyone else who knows her Bobby?
Is she OK
Yes Padgett…but it was even longer ago since he heard from her. Padgett himself doesn’t remember but I do.
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∂³∑x² — 1 year ago(December 29, 2024 06:53 PM)
Bobby Tomlinson said...
Yes Padgett…but it was even longer ago since he heard from her. Padgett himself doesn’t remember but I do.
Well maybe try to find out that she's safe and well.
Do it from a distance though so you can respect her choice to have 'ghosted' you (Or whatever people say these days).
But it would be a good friendly thing to see that she's alright
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Bobby Tomlinson — 1 year ago(December 29, 2024 07:30 PM)
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Well maybe try to find out that she's safe and well.
Do it from a distance though so you can respect her choice to have 'ghosted' you (Or whatever people say these days).
But it would be a good friendly thing to see that she's alright
Oh she’s FINE!!
I can see her Facebook account forever being updated with my secret Facebook account which no one knows about.
It’s a most horrid feeling, knowing that you’re being ghosted.
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∂³∑x² — 1 year ago(December 29, 2024 07:37 PM)
Bobby Tomlinson said...
Oh she’s FINE!!
I can see her Facebook account forever being updated with my secret Facebook account which no one knows about.
It’s a most horrid feeling, knowing that you’re being ghosted.
So is ghosting an active thing that people do to not think about someone else Bobby?
Seems like a lot of work to me. On the few occasions I've had to say to someone that I don't want to speak to them I've been upfront with them and shared why.
If they can see what I'm talking about then perhaps I've saved them the same thing in the future from someone else and if they don't see what I'm talking about then maybe I'm the dick and it's still best we didn't hang out.
Saves all that potential paranoia and confusion about the situation. To y mind at least
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Bobby Tomlinson — 1 year ago(December 29, 2024 08:10 PM)
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So is ghosting an active thing that people do to not think about someone else Bobby?
Seems like a lot of work to me. On the few occasions I've had to say to someone that I don't want to speak to them I've been upfront with them and shared why.
If they can see what I'm talking about then perhaps I've saved them the same thing in the future from someone else and if they don't see what I'm talking about then maybe I'm the dick and it's still best we didn't hang out.
Saves all that potential paranoia and confusion about the situation. To y mind at least
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That what you described is the decent and proper thing to do. However there are a lot of cowards in the world who see ghosting as an easy way out. They choose not to want to deal with someone or something so just don’t, cold turkey. It’s rather pathetic really.
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∂³∑x² — 1 year ago(December 29, 2024 08:13 PM)
Bobby Tomlinson said...
That what you described is the decent and proper thing to do. However there are a lot of cowards in the world who see ghosting as an easy way out. They choose not to want to deal with someone or something so just don’t, cold turkey. It’s rather pathetic really.
Well I'd have it out with her, nicely.
I don't think that it is healthy for either of you Bobby
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Bobby Tomlinson — 1 year ago(December 29, 2024 08:27 PM)
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Well I'd have it out with her, nicely.
I don't think that it is healthy for either of you Bobby
But how do I do it?!!
I’ve tried messaging, ringing, knocking on her door etc. the only option left is to break into her home whilst she’s out and sit there holding a large scotch until she returns…like some kind of scene from Enders!
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∂³∑x² — 1 year ago(December 29, 2024 08:49 PM)
Bobby Tomlinson said...
But how do I do it?!!
I’ve tried messaging, ringing, knocking on her door etc. the only option left is to break into her home whilst she’s out and sit there holding a large scotch until she returns…like some kind of scene from Enders!
I think a note with a goodbye would be the best way Bobby
Just to say that you think it's best for you each to be truly free of each others thoughts and for her to be happy kind of affair
That way she could relax a little and you could move onto someone who actually appreciates you.
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Bobby Tomlinson — 1 year ago(December 29, 2024 09:06 PM)
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I think a note with a goodbye would be the best way Bobby
Just to say that you think it's best for you each to be truly free of each others thoughts and for her to be happy kind of affair
That way she could relax a little and you could move onto someone who actually appreciates you.
I can’t think of other people, I’m too stuck on her and always will be.
Anyway this is upsetting me now so I’m changing the subject. I think that you could send your female friend a message about Nigel quite easily! Just ask her if she’s watched anything good this Christmas and then follow that up with ‘hey I heard that Nigel is back in Enders!’.
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∂³∑x² — 1 year ago(December 29, 2024 09:16 PM)
Bobby Tomlinson said...
I can’t think of other people, I’m too stuck on her and always will be.
Anyway this is upsetting me now so I’m changing the subject. I think that you could send your female friend a message about Nigel quite easily! Just ask her if she’s watched anything good this Christmas and then follow that up with ‘hey I heard that Nigel is back in Enders!’.
I'll certainly mention it when I next see her Bobby.
I know she'll be happy to talk about it and give me her thoughts on it which I shall convey to you
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Bobby Tomlinson — 1 year ago(December 29, 2024 09:52 PM)
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I'll certainly mention it when I next see her Bobby.
I know she'll be happy to talk about it and give me her thoughts on it which I shall convey to you
I have another text message idea if you don’t like that one…
You could send ‘hey there, I’ve just been channel flicking and came across the repeat of the Enders Christmas episodes. I didn’t know that Nigel had come back into it! Wowee!!’.
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∂³∑x² — 1 year ago(December 29, 2024 09:58 PM)
Bobby Tomlinson said...
I have another text message idea if you don’t like that one…
You could send ‘hey there, I’ve just been channel flicking and came across the repeat of the Enders Christmas episodes. I didn’t know that Nigel had come back into it! Wowee!!’.
She knows that I don't watch TV Bobby.
She'd be suspicious
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Bobby Tomlinson — 1 year ago(December 30, 2024 01:44 PM)
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I'll just stick to the Nigel angle for now Bobby
The whole idea is to tell her that you know about Nigel thus garnering her opinion, but it’s how to go about all that naturally.
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∂³∑x² — 1 year ago(December 30, 2024 02:10 PM)
Bobby Tomlinson said...
The whole idea is to tell her that you know about Nigel thus garnering her opinion, but it’s how to go about all that naturally.
I could do a little prep first and then appear more knowledgeable than I am Bobby
I'm quite good at using that as a tool to get more information out of people
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Bobby Tomlinson — 1 year ago(December 30, 2024 02:43 PM)
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I could do a little prep first and then appear more knowledgeable than I am Bobby
I'm quite good at using that as a tool to get more information out of people
Ok well I’ll keep you up to date then. Nigel has had a shave in today’s episode and is looking more like his old self.
Perhaps you could have a shave, send her the pictures (and say things like ‘looky looky here! Smooth and suave. Sexy man!’) and that might make her think of Nigel having a shave and she’ll begin talking about it.
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∂³∑x² — 1 year ago(December 30, 2024 02:48 PM)
Bobby Tomlinson said...
Ok well I’ll keep you up to date then. Nigel has had a shave in today’s episode and is looking more like his old self.
Perhaps you could have a shave, send her the pictures (and say things like ‘looky looky here! Smooth and suave. Sexy man!’) and that might make her think of Nigel having a shave and she’ll begin talking about it.
I don't have that type of relationship with her Bobby
Or anyone for that matter
I will however mention that Nigel has had a shave and that you think he look smoother and more suave for it
I will mention my Ethel AI entity and the Dot Common virus needed to bring it down though. That should cheer her up
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