https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/beautiful-minds/201103/do-narcissists-know-they-are-narcissists
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โ 5 years ago(September 19, 2020 05:11 PM)When I encounter a girl whoโs insanely pretty and confident I just want to talk to her and make her my best friend, even if sheโs a stranger on social media. Positive vibes are contagious. The jealousy never made any sense to me.
Like you said, competition usually occurs over a guy (or girl in some cases). My ex roomie is bi and her ex girlfriend hated me just because we lived together and she felt threatened. Iโm like bitch I donโt like
why are you threatened by me? Lmao
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โ 5 years ago(September 19, 2020 05:56 PM)Itโs a symptom of basing your entire personality and self-worth on looks and how many compliments , likes and comments you get. Everyone loves to be admired but donโt let it be the source of your self-worth, or it will cripple you.
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Margo โ 5 years ago(September 19, 2020 07:00 PM)
So all that knowledge and wisdomโฆdid you become famous yet? Lol
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MissMargoChanning โ 5 years ago(September 18, 2020 02:20 PM)
Sadly, once others get to know this narcissist, the admiration fades, and the dislike is inevitable.
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Dazed โ 5 years ago(September 18, 2020 03:53 PM)
I think age most definitely factors into it, life changes us. There is also a train of thought that says very beautiful people don't need to try so hard to develop a personality.
Although in the case of my ex friend she seemed worse than ever! She said she had embraced Facebook with a passion, she loved all the likes, she documented every move she made.
Looking back I wish I'd been less self-absorbed as a youngster.
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MissMargoChanning โ 5 years ago(September 18, 2020 05:54 PM)
Excuse me for butting in, but think I understand. I think that everyone can relate when it comes to our early teens and the way things were in middle school.
That is the age when we are most aware of ourselves. We want to become independent of our parents, and yet, we want to fit in with our peers. We follow the leaders, so we really aren't all that independent after all.
We are really just trying to figure ourselves out at that age, so we are naturally self centered.
The only people we did listen to were the kids we hung out with, and they were in the same boat as youโฆ trying to figure themselves out.
You are normal in that respect.
Cold comfort at that age.
I would never want to go back to that time in life.
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MissMargoChanning โ 5 years ago(September 18, 2020 04:27 PM)
No. Although, as my world has shrunk, due to this pandemic, I do tend to think more about myself. Just worry.
I can honestly say that I worry more about the ones I love, more than myself, so in that respect, I need not worry that I am a narcissist.
On the other hand, I find myself discussing myself a great deal in this very post.
Should I be worried???
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Dazed โ 5 years ago(September 18, 2020 04:45 PM)
No not at all.
I mean if there was ever a time to consider ourselves, our nearest and dearest and their safety it is now.
It's fascinating and it was reading your conversation with Miley earlier that made me wonder about this. She said that she knew she was a narcissist but it felt like she was saying it exonerated her from having to do the hard work of making conversation and taking an interest in others and that it was our fault somehow
the nature of the beast I suppose.
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MissMargoChanning โ 5 years ago(September 18, 2020 04:54 PM)
So true.
I had the feeling that what she said about narcissism had something to do with this thread. I see that you did some research on the subject too.
This little site isn't all bad. The things people say here, can be thought provoking. It can also be a reminder that we aren't always alone in our thoughts, which is a good thingโฆ in some cases.
You asked a pretty question; I've given you the ugly answer.
Fasten Your Seatbeltsโฆ.
It's Going To Be A Bumpy Night!