My mom’s toaster was broken so I bought her a beautiful new toaster oven that is simple to use. Instead of using it thi
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It’smonicah — 8 months ago(July 27, 2025 06:37 PM)
Well maybe she could eventually get it or maybe ask if she would rather have a regular toaster. I think it sounds she’s having a hard time adjusting to it or maybe she just has her own preference. Older ppl are definitely like that tho
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MissMargoChanning — 8 months ago(July 27, 2025 06:32 PM)
Why didn't you get her toaster? That probably takes up less counter space. It really hasn't anything to do with age,or resistance to change. It has more to do with knowing what one likes.
If she liked her toaster, you ought to have gotten her a better one with bigger slots for her bagle.
There is no doubt that she probably lost patience with you while trying to teach you things while growing up. No doubt she loves you though.
Give her a little time. She might look over these instructions and try out that oven because you gave it to her and she loves you.
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MissMargoChanning — 8 months ago(July 27, 2025 06:42 PM)
Ok. I understand. Just give her a little time to make the adjustment. Everyone needs that when faced with something new.
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MissMargoChanning — 8 months ago(July 28, 2025 02:34 PM)
Have you ever been slapped across the face?
No.
You obviously have. Hence, your animosity.
Try ignoring me if you are triggered by what I say.
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Ajgoodfellow — 8 months ago(July 27, 2025 07:11 PM)
lol my mom literally orders the same thing no matter which restaurant we choose. Thai food? Salmon. Sizzler? Salmon. Chinese restaurant? Salmon. I find it strange but maybe I will understand when I get to that age. She’s 82.
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HollyJollyHanukka — 8 months ago(July 27, 2025 08:04 PM)
She may be OCD, ADHD, or have some minor neurodivergent condition where change is difficult for her. At 82 she’s not going to change . But you are a good and thoughtful son for buying her a replacement.
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MissMargoChanning — 8 months ago(July 27, 2025 08:07 PM)
She knows what she likes, and at 82, she obviously knows what she can digest.
Most people with elderly parents understand these things.
It's nice to see you back. Good wishes to both you and your mother.
You asked a pretty question; I've given you the ugly answer.
Fasten Your Seatbelts….
It's Going To Be A Bumpy Night!