Originally for five years for breast reduction but they changed it to urgent so how long would that make it ?
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/.ㅤ — 9 months ago(June 30, 2025 06:58 AM)
This is just cope because you're not happy with the size of your boobs so you're trying to tell yourself "well I don't want boobs anyway, so there!" but that won't make you any happier. You'll just feel worse because when you decide you're a girl again, which always happens, you'll regret what you did and you won't be able to go back.
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It’smonicah — 9 months ago(June 30, 2025 04:16 PM)
Being anorexic won’t make you happy because your weight has nothing to do with your value or who you are as a person. You may not see it now but you’re focusing on the wrong things about yourself and that is what makes you hate yourself even more.
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It’smonicah — 9 months ago(June 30, 2025 05:41 PM)
I understand that since I have gone through similar issues with body image majority of my life and its hard to not to focus so much on looks when society likes to put a lot of importance on it. But self esteem and happiness arent based on beauty or how much you weigh. If you keep thinking this way you will always be struggling with feeling inadequate no matter how skinny you get. I know youre thinking that being skinny will help you love yourself more but it really wont
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It’smonicah — 9 months ago(June 30, 2025 06:17 PM)
If you are looking to feel love and gain self confidence and acceptance just remember that being thin doesn't automatically give you that and you can achieve all those things at any weight. Being confident isn't earned by being skinny and we can choose to be confident no matter what we look like
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azn_2 — 9 months ago(June 30, 2025 06:19 PM)
But you yourself are so skinny Monicah. Miley has been medicated her entire life.
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It’smonicah — 9 months ago(June 30, 2025 06:34 PM)
I have struggled with weight my whole life and my weight has constantly fluctuated up and down because of all the dieting I did and never feeling satisfied with myself even for the brief moments I did reach being underweight. But I am not underweight like how I know Miley wants to be. Making yourself go through that is not worth it and wont last and it took a huge emotional toll on myself for many years. I never once gained confidence in myself or felt more loved and accepted by people just from being smaller. Thats not where confidence comes from
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azn_2 — 9 months ago(June 30, 2025 06:49 PM)
I understand but imagine being medicated into being fat your entire young adult life. That's what Miley and also I have gone through. I feel like that is where a lot of Miley's frustration comes from. I don't think she will be as skinny as she was when she was a kid but just being normal weight again would do a lot for her self-esteem.
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It’smonicah — 9 months ago(June 30, 2025 07:05 PM)
I agree it could help but it all goes down to how that’s achieved and being healthy and having a positive relationship with food will come a long way. Once she stops dieting she will eventually learn her healthy weight range instead of trying to achieve something that is not healthy for her
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azn_2 — 9 months ago(June 30, 2025 07:22 PM)
I honestly don't know if she actually had an eating disorder prior to being diagnosed with a mental illness and being medicated. I think maybe her issues with her weight started after she were medicated and gained a lot of weight. But I agree that being underweight isn't healthy or something anyone should want to achieve.
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It’smonicah — 9 months ago(June 30, 2025 07:33 PM)
I don’t want to speak for her but I know the desire to be thin is super common in women mostly because of all the stuff we are exposed to in the media and the societal expectations of being skinny are a huge influence on our self esteem. So many women develop eating disorders because of the unfair and unrealistic beauty standards put on us. But it’s something that we have to realize it’s harming us more than it’s helping us to keep listening to. There can be other factors that contribute to eating disorders but societal expectations don’t help
