what is it about men that they always want a hot 20s or 30s girl no matter how o
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lukejbarnett — 4 years ago(May 01, 2021 12:36 AM)
really? so you have 2 people, man, woman, they both have interest in each other sexually but the woman has the final word on the act of having sex? is that really true? how come the guy doesn't have the final word?
is this bc a woman is the less wanting to have sex between the 2 bc they are biologically built to be more restraining about having sex than men?
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Cheeky — 4 years ago(April 30, 2021 09:08 PM)
Guys usually prefer younger. Lately I've had younger men coming on to me
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TheSuperPoster — 4 years ago(April 30, 2021 09:52 PM)
I'm not remotely attracted to younger men, and it would feel so selfish to be with them.
Any man I've talked to under the age of 35 wants to start a family, but I'm content with only having my teenage son.
Even when I tell them I am not interested in having more children, they say they'd be willing to put aside their desire to have their own children.
Why would I want to do that to someone?
These dudes who are over 55 and dating 22 year olds are obviously only after the sex and ego boost. They have nothing substantial to offer in terms of family and long-term life partnership.
They'd be dead before their new children went off to college.
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Hepocles — 4 years ago(April 30, 2021 10:03 PM)
Even when I tell them I am not interested in having more children, they say they'd be willing to put aside their desire to have their own children.
I'm curious about this… Are these guys just that desperate for female attention or are they just looking to get a leg over?
These dudes who are over 55 and dating 22 year olds are obviously only after the sex and ego boost. They have nothing substantial to offer in terms of family and long-term life partnership.
And the younger women are just looking for a status or financial bump. They deserve each other in my opinion. Dating a 22 year old sounds like a ****ing nightmare to me.
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TheSuperPoster — 4 years ago(April 30, 2021 10:14 PM)
I'm curious about this… Are these guys just that desperate for female attention or are they just looking to get a leg over?
Excellent question.
My theory only: Younger men (and women) still hold a very idealized and romanticized position on love.
Instead of being practical, wise, prudent, and discerning, they're far more willing to put their own needs and ambitions aside for love.
Which leads me to…
And the younger women are just looking for a status or financial bump. They deserve each other in my opinion. Dating a 22 year old sounds like a ****ing nightmare to me.
Exactly.
The caveat though is that a lot of these younger women have "daddy issues" (I despise that term, but that's a discussion for another time), and to use them for sexual gratification is predatory, IMO. -
Hepocles — 4 years ago(April 30, 2021 10:30 PM)
Instead of being practical, wise, prudent, and discerning, they're far more willing to put their own needs and ambitions aside for love.
Which would make sense to me if it applied to both sexes but I don't think that it does. A woman that wanted kids, simply would not sacrifice that for a single man. I think what you are seeing is more likely to be guys that have been starved of female attention and will do or say anything to keep a hold of it.
I know loads of guys like this. Work with loads of them in the IT industry. Typically these guys marry and have kids with the first woman that pays them any attention at all.
…to use them for sexual gratification is predatory
As is using men for resources. Like I said already - they deserve each other.
Alba gu bràth -
lukejbarnett — 4 years ago(May 01, 2021 12:43 AM)
so in your mind what is worse? this is a very intriguing question bc it could go either way: guys who use girls 20 years younger than them for sex or girls who use guys 20 years older than them for money?
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TheAdlerian — 4 years ago(April 30, 2021 03:03 PM)
I am not attracted to young women and view them as kids.
Also, I like to talk and there's not much to talk about with young women as they tend to have very limited interests. Again, that's like talking to a child for me and I don't get excited by that.
However, I understand.
Women tend to get bitter and weird as they get older. I can't think of any females I know who are "alive" as they get older, like they are interested in the world, exercise, being creative, and so on.
I know lots of men with hobbies and don't know any women with hobbies. Like I've mentioned, younger women are like kids so they get excited about stuff.
If you take a young woman to a restaurant, she will get excited. If you take an older one she will be like, I could have made this at home, there's a draft on my legs, etc.
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TheAdlerian — 4 years ago(April 30, 2021 03:16 PM)
That's what women think because my women are douchebags.
You can see that by what you posted.
There's a vast difference in the desire to be with someone who is clearly enjoying themselves and expecting someone to "perform" as if they are enjoying, when they aren't.
The "bitter douche" woman is never in the moment but always evaluating what is happening, what should be happening vs is, and so forth. That's the formula for bitterness.
Many women, if you notice, end up alone and with an animal. That's because the animal can't talk, can't really love, and is under the control of the woman. That's a reflection of the psychology of the woman, not the men in her life.
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insurgent — 4 years ago(April 30, 2021 03:30 PM)
The great majority of women get married and have children. Maybe the women you meet who have always been single are like that, but they are in the minority. most transition their identity to being a mother. Thus they are not alone.