To live in the hearts we leave behind is not to die
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PrepaidVenerealDisease — 15 years ago(November 09, 2010 04:03 PM)
If you've ever seen an interview with Courtney Love, or read some of her statements, it's clear that she puts money over everything. Literally over everything, and she's more than a bit unstable.
Yes, Courtney cares about money. But enough to murder her husband and father of her child? I highly doubt that. Her years of instability, especially since Kurt's death, could easily be attributed to her drug abuse. Prior to his death I'd say she was definitely
out there
but I wouldn't go as far to call her crazy.
Now, there is evidence that Kurt was going to divorce her, leaving her with nothing. There was a prenup.
Rosemary Carrol even said she wasn't sure how serious he was about wanting a divorce.
"Did he ever say that to me? Yes he did, but I don't know how serious he was. He loved her very much. He was besotted with her, but at the same time it was very difficult for him. . . The defining moment of Kurt's life was his parents' divorce, and he would have done anything to avoid that same situation rather than put Frances through it - and to the degree he thought divorce was inevitable, the pain of that was unbearable, unbearable."
Page 543 of Nirvana the Biography.
No papers were filed/signed or even typed up. While there's no doubt they were having issues it seems any discussion(s) of a divorce ends right at that phone call. At least as far as lawyers go.
Even if they were to divorce I doubt Kurt would leave Courtney completely penniless. He said that he would still strive for civility between himself and Courtney, for the sake of Frances, if they were to divorce.
If Kurt wanted his marriage to end why would he say Courtney is a "goddess of a wife who sweats empathy and ambition" in his suicide note? That specific part of the note isn't in dispute on who wrote it. It's clearly in Kurt's handwriting.
It was also known at this timeb68 that she didn't really care for him anymore anyway.
Really? I figured reviving him on the floor of a hotel room in Rome showed she cares. No doubt they had issues in the last few months of his life but I don't buy that she saw him as disposable or stopped caring for him completely. -
gabbygirl499 — 12 years ago(December 30, 2013 05:10 PM)
I refuse to get into another suicide murder debate because it's ridiculous and this topic needs to friggin die already.
But what irks me is a few things. When people say there was "evidence he was divorcing her". There was actually NO evidence of this. No papers were filed, and not only that, they weren't even
separated
prior to his death. They were still living in the same damn house tog5b4ether. Usually when a couple gets divorced, it is after they have separated for a while. So there was absolutely no factual evidence they were divorcing. They were just struggling and fighting on and off because both were battling drug addictions.
Couples who fight a lot threaten divorce all the time. There was nothing indicating that they were actually going to do it. I personally believe the reason divorce was even threatened was because Kurt was mad that Courtney gave him an ultimatum that he needed to go to rehab or he wouldn't see Frances anymore. I'm sure that set him off which led him to out of anger, speak of divorcing her but again NOTHING was official. Not even close.
Second, I hate it when people make it seem like Courtney needed Kurt's money because she had none. Courtney was making money going on tour. Not only that but her album "Live Through This" was completed months before Kurt's death and it was an OBVIOUS hit album. Every song on there was perfection. So there was no doubt she'd make a fortune off of it which she did end up doing. So she didn't need to have Kurt's money. She was making her own. -
!!!deleted!!! (46194601) — 12 years ago(February 23, 2014 08:16 AM)
Anyone who thinks that Courtney killed him just doesn't know the real Courtney. She's far from perfect, but would she kill her own husband, the father of her child? I
strongly
doubt it.
This whole murder thing started out as a silly little rumor in 1995, and now, it's blown up into something huge and ridiculous.
These conspiracists desperately cling on to the murder conspiracy because they don't want to accept the fact that their idol chose to end his life.
If Courtney truly wanted him dead, don't you think that she could've easily let him die of those overdoses he had? Guess what? She revived him from thoseI read this quote of Courtney's where she said that it got to the point of where she was carrying around Naloxone - a drug that revives an opiate overdose. Do you think that she'd do this if she wanted him to die? I don't think so.
He killed himself. Move on. -
BulmaPunkRocker — 12 years ago(March 07, 2014 11:42 PM)
I'm not talking about Courtney, but we all know he had way too much heroin on his blood system to be able to shoot himself. And there's the other issues, too many to list.
And the rumours didn't start in 95', it started in 94'.
Please excuse my terrible redaction, english is not my native language. -
wantutosigh — 12 years ago(March 21, 2014 10:09 AM)
Courtney Love is a sociapath and extremely shrewd and cunning. Almost everyone who knew her will tell you that and almost everyone who who knew her are also scared of her and many won't go on record against her. So to paint her as this helpless junkie who can't even tie her shoes is completely inaccurate. And to paint her as someone who could never hurt the father of her child is again, flat out wrong.
Even Francis Bean has emancipated herself from Courtney at this point and refers to Courtney as "my biological mother". As apposed to "my mom" or even "Courtney".
RIP Bob Probert -
SimplemindedSociety — 12 years ago(March 28, 2014 01:55 PM)
'These conspiracists desperately cling on to the murder conspiracy because they don't want to accept the fact that their idol chose to end his life.'
That's how it is on every board with every idol, whether it's a gun,overdose, car crash, slipped on a banana peel ..