Courtney claims Kurt was 'sexually inexperienced'
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Archived from the IMDb Discussion Forums — Kurt Cobain
gabbygirl499 — 15 years ago(March 25, 2011 04:38 PM)
I just heard a few year old interview of Courtney on Howard Stern, and she claimed Kurt was very sexually inexperienced. She said she tried to get him to have threesomes and he refused. She then said she coaxed him to have sex with some model, because she wanted him to be more sexually experienced.
Now what is inexperienced to her? I know she's been around the block a few times so there is no way Kurt was in her league as far as sexual partners.but damn. She had to
coax
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jadorecaroline — 15 years ago(March 25, 2011 09:59 PM)
did courtney mention when she tried to get kurt to have sex with those random chicks? was it when they were married? if it was, then i don't think it's odd at all that kurt refused to have sex with them. and who can really believe anything that courtney love says anyways? also, i think it was vh1's behind the music courtney love special where she said that kurt was really good in bed.
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Chief_Chokeaho — 15 years ago(March 25, 2011 11:13 PM)
I'm sure Kurt was sexually inexperienced compared to Courtney, there's very few people who aren't in comparison to her.
I was unaware that Courtney tried to coax him into a three-some and he refused and that he also had to be coaxed into sleeping with another woman while in a relationship.
That makes me respect him even more.
I may joke around about women on occasion, but I'm actually a big propone1c84nt for women's rights and treating women with respect and honor.
Then maybe someday I can get rid of that piss stained mattress I've been sleeping on -
gabbygirl499 — 15 years ago(March 26, 2011 01:12 AM)
I agree. It makes me respect him more too. It is clear he was not the type of guy who slept around with a ton of people. He pretty much went from long term relationship to long term relationship. I think he was more of the woman in the relationship and she was the manin numerous ways. She was bigger, she was more outspoken and bossy, she slept with more people and was very open sexually. Kurt seemed more like a quiet homebody.
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gabbygirl499 — 15 years ago(March 26, 2011 01:09 AM)
I don't think it was when they were married, I think it was when they were dating. She was trying to get him to loosen up I guess and have more sexual experience. I think because she has SO MUCH experience, she wanted him to catch up.
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jadorecaroline — 15 years ago(March 26, 2011 01:31 PM)
yea, courtney was definitely the guy in the relationship. i can't imagine kurt ever being the type to sleep around with random women. he had more morals than that. he was definitely the anti-rock-star rock star.
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BewareOfTheAvalanche — 10 years ago(May 23, 2015 03:18 PM)
he had more morals than that.
No one does anything because of morals, people do what they do because of fear, empathy, love, hate or other strong emotions. Morals have little to do with how many people you are willing to sleep. Of course, it's cool to see a rock star that doesn't fall in the rock star stereotype, but besides that it has no meaning. -
BewareOfTheAvalanche — 10 years ago(August 09, 2015 10:58 AM)
A man who was not dominated by his sex drive
Yet got sucked up in drugs and depression. The man who cannot keep his zipper up and a man who cannot stay out of drugs are much more similar than you think, the only difference is the object of their addiction. -
PrepaidVenerealDisease — 15 years ago(March 27, 2011 05:46 PM)
I take most things Courtney says with a grain of salt.
But on a different note of Kurt having "more morals" or something, as someone else said. And, what I perceive, as some bashing towards Courtney for her sex life. The two had different views on sex/relationships, it doesn't make one more or less moral than the other. Antiquated views on sexuality (especially female) are tiring. -
Maniac-9 — 14 years ago(April 17, 2011 03:24 PM)
Courtney is basically the worst thing that ever happened to Kurt. I honestly believe if it wasn't for her he wouldn't have gotten so deeply into drugs, he definitely would've still been a user but he wouldn't have had such an enabler in his life. And he would probably still be around today whether or not if he still playing with Nirvana or having his own solo career going on is another argument.
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PrepaidVenerealDisease — 14 years ago(April 17, 2011 03:58 PM)
Kurt
wanted
an enabler and he wanted someone to do drugs with. Eric Erlandson has said Kurt, in part, wanted to live out his "rock n roll junkie fantasy". Going by Everett True's book, he broke up with Tobi because she didn't approve of his drug usage. Even Mary Lou Lord had a zero tolerance policy on drugs. Courtney wasn't the greatest thing for Kurt's sobriety but it's also what he wanted. Both are to blame for their drug abuse. -
gabbygirl499 — 14 years ago(April 17, 2011 08:37 PM)
How is Courtney to blame for his drug use? She was a drug addict too! I don't get this at all. Kurt was a grown man when he CHOSE to do drugs. Courtney was his drug buddy who had her own issues. And from what I've heard from several sources, Kurt was a worse drug addict that Courtney was.
She isn't to blame for his mistakes. She had her own issues she was dealing with. Addicts have to hold themselves accountable for their actions, because no one else is to blame but them. -
PrepaidVenerealDisease — 14 years ago(April 18, 2011 12:17 AM)
Sometimes Nirvana/Kurt fans cause me to view him with contempt. His actions get excused while Courtney receives the criticized
both
of them deserve. In trying to say this to people I'm forced to examine both of their lives. I'm honestly curious how Kurt would've reacted to his parents moving to another country without him. Or his mother being married around half a dozen times before he hit puberty. If that damn divorce haunted him for the rest of his life imagine how he would've been from that. Both had screwed up childhoods maybe worse than what we know but from what is known Courtney had it harder. He comes off as such a whiny self-pitying brat at times. -
gabbygirl499 — 14 years ago(April 18, 2011 03:48 PM)
I agree, Courtney had it worse. Her parents abandoned her, she grew up in foster homes and juvenile hall her whole life. She pretty much had to raise herself. She said once that she learned how to socialize very late in life from drag queens and rockstars. She claimed that before then she was so quiet she was thought to be autistic.
I'm just sick of people blaming everything Kurt did on her. He was a damn adult, he made major mistakes himself. But because he died, he is off the hook and she is blamed for everything by dumb conspiracy nuts. Even right down to her mothering skills. Well at least she lived to take care of her own daughter. Also even when Kurt WAS alive he was still shooting up heroin while fathering Frances. He was no better, as much as I love him. -
PrepaidVenerealDisease — 14 years ago(April 19, 2011 06:07 AM)
I don't view either of them as great parents. I don't doubt their love for Frances but there are issues neither have dealt with to fully be there as parents. But she does take the criticism they both deserve, imo. I mentioned two weeks ago on IMDb that no matter the issue Courtney will get crucified while Kurt gets off without a slap on the wrist. Even if it's dealing with the same thing like drugs, threatening phone calls and parenting skills.
It was either Dylan or Cali that said they thought Kurt just beginning to enter really bad drug addiction at the time of his death. He could have easily become just as much of a drugged out mess Courtney has been. He's just as flawed as Courtney ever was but he gets romanticized since he died young. -
cdz6969 — 14 years ago(April 21, 2011 10:02 AM)
Kurt was most likely clinically depressed well before he even became famous. He was probably the shy smelly kid in high school who wore the same clothes to school every day and had ugly girlfriends if any, and experimented with drugs just to get away from painful situation while growing up.
When some people become successful and they come from a painful abusive background, they have it installed in their minds they made it to where they are without any help and figure whatever doesn't kill them makes them stronger. So they wont recognize help when they see it and can very well end up dead one day.
Those who had people at-least try to help, even if they failed to help them, that person at least can recognize that others care about them IE) family members, spouse or children. Kurt didn't have this. Because Courtney was from all reports wanting him to live a Rock Star's lifestyle and to have group-sex etc, this could have made him go more into a deeper drug filled depression because he couldn't live up to those expectations etc.
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