Despite her family being slaughtered!
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rmcrae_deluxe — 15 years ago(September 10, 2010 01:15 PM)
"I think she's doing her best to be happy because she has a child to think of. It would be unfair to him if she5b4 were depressed and crying all of the time.
Also, we don't see Jennifer behind clothes doors, for all we know she cries herself to sleep every night."
Exactly. Jennifer said that for months after the murders she made sure to pray before going to bed and after waking up. If she didn't, her depression worsened. What did you guys expect her to do? Crawl under the covers and never come out? Her mom, brother, and nephew wouldn't want her to stop living her life and be in pain forever. The birth of her son has eased the pain, but of course it'll never completely go away.
Don't
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recook77 — 13 years ago(May 22, 2012 09:38 AM)
"Her mom111c, brother, and nephew wouldn't want her to stop living her life and be in pain forever."
EXACTLY! When you really love someone, you want that person to be happy, even if you can't be there for them. -
frolic18 — 15 years ago(September 18, 2010 11:01 PM)
Wow seriously? What gives you the right to judge her? How do you know how she's actually dealing with it? That's her business. I remember watching her perform the Star Spangled Banner shortly after her family was murdered and from what I saw she did all she could just to make it through the song. You have no right to judge her. Everyone deals with grief differently. And just because she puts on a happy face in public doesn't mean that's how she feels about it. In my opinion she's a very strong woman who had to pull herself back together for her family. How would you feel if your family was brutally murdered and people were criticizing you and telling you how you should feel about it?
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venusebony — 15 years ago(October 14, 2010 04:39 AM)
The OP and the haters are losers and obviously do not understand how much strength Jennifer Hudson has! The woman lost her FAMILY it is shameful and disgusting the negative comments! Of course, Jennifer misses her mother, brother, and nephew BUT life MUST GO ON! Jennifer's family wouldn't want her crying and being depresed all the time. We do not know if Jennifer went through intense therapy to deal with the tragic death of her family members!
I think Jennifer's son, her weight loss is a part of the physical, spiritual, and emotional transformation! I think Jennifer realizes she wants to live her life to the fullest and be there for her son!
What do people want Jennifer depresed and crying all day? Now how would that be good for her young son?
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SimplemindedSociety — 15 years ago(November 12, 2010 07:48 PM)
'a lot of the people here don't give a crap about either Jennifer Hudson nor about what happened to her family'.
We care about as much as we can about strangers being murdered. It's always tragic to hear about this kind of thing,so why are you telling us that we don't give a crap.
Also, one does not "choose" to put it aside and move on. If you are that devestated and "crushed" you don't just decide to move on. Crushed people don't elect to feel 'strong'. Either one is sensitive, or they are not. -
Writerchick10 — 15 years ago(December 05, 2010 08:03 PM)
I was horrified by some of the comments in this thread. Who raises people to say such things? You people have ABSOLUTELY NO idea what Jennifer Hudson went through after the tragic murder of her family. Everyone deals with stuff in different ways and until you go through it you have no idea what it feels like. I'm just disgusted that people, hidden by the anonymity of the internet, can post such things. You should be ashamed. I think Jennifer Hudson is an incredibly strong, admirable, talented woman and to say that she used her family tragedy to enhance her career is DISGUSTING.
Lo and behold things are killing me
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RomanceNovelist — 15 years ago(February 27, 2011 05:53 PM)
Who are you idiots to decide when its time to stop mourning? Let's hope your family gets slaughtered and see how long it takes you to heal? One week? A few days? Twenty years?
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dcleo1515 — 14 years ago(August 09, 2011 12:53 PM)
I don't know what you are talking about bc I've hardly seen her smile when she is asked about the family members that died. Most of the time her face looks devastated and when she does actually "smile" it is one of those forced, awkward smiles that people give when they try not show their true feelings. Her eyes hold a sadness within them whenever she does talk about her family.
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RogerSmithAD — 14 years ago(September 06, 2011 03:41 PM)
What a disturbing topic!
Maybe Jennifer just decided not to let this destroy her. For all we know, she could still be going through therapy as we speak. But that is still a private issue so long as she chooses not to discuss it.
In the end, none of us are in a position to judge her.