Poll: Can you separate sex from love?
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Platonic_Caveman — 4 years ago(May 01, 2021 04:22 AM)
Sweetie, you're the one who gets so drunk and coked out you lose control of your bowels.
We went over this a long time ago. I'm always in control.
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Prince Mongo — 4 years ago(May 08, 2021 02:18 AM)
No, I’m the one who will continue to ridicule you on the actual things you post, and you can continue to invent things in your perverted imagination.
I can remind you with screen caps if you wish, sweetie.
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Platonic_Caveman — 4 years ago(May 06, 2021 06:01 AM)
Ewww. And lol no. I've done my share of kink but I don't believe in using sex toys or weird devices. It's just flesh on flesh. It's the dynamic of our two personalities.
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尺ロㄈにモイ-ら凡几 — 4 years ago(May 01, 2021 02:39 AM)
I feel like great sex comes from a place of love. If you aren't in love with who you're experiencing the intimacy of a sexual nature with then there won't be any great sex. You don't even really have to know someone to love them completely. It's just like you see them and you are attracted to them physically and both of you decide to create art in the form of coitus and it's magical. Really magical. That's where the love comes from, man.
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TheAdlerian — 4 years ago(May 01, 2021 02:48 AM)
I generally can't.
I could have sex with a person I didn't like once, but not twice and I could never pretend regularly.
Typically, I like everyone equally which means I don't feel much for women I like as I think of them as being like men.
I have to admire a woman and think she has adorable qualities before I want to have sex with her. -
Platonic_Caveman — 4 years ago(May 01, 2021 04:26 AM)
So you meet a hot chick at a club or even at the supermarket; she comes on to you, she makes signs she wants to **** now; and you say "Oh, lets wait until we get to know each other better." I don't buy it.
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P.Error — 4 years ago(May 01, 2021 04:45 AM)
So you meet a hot chick at a club or even at the supermarket; she comes on to you,
For me, at that point I am already in love with her, so point is moot.
I think being sexually attracted to someone is the same as loving them on a level. It all comes from the same place.
Sex without love is analogous to, IMO, having sex with someone you find repulsive that you're not into. The sex becomes a chore - unenjoyable. Why bother?
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Platonic_Caveman — 4 years ago(May 01, 2021 05:56 AM)
So you agree with me but you just change your definition of love to match your sexual desire.
Sure, I love somebody for an hour while we're ****ing. But after that, meh.
Dude, I'm not gonna have sex with someone who repulses me, love or no love.
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TheAdlerian — 4 years ago(May 01, 2021 03:07 PM)
A person can love a child or a friend and sex never crosses their mind.
Love is different than sex.
As I've said, if you love a kid your sex drive is off. If you love a woman like your sister, your sex drive is off.
Older people who aren't interested in sex that much or at all feel love. -
TheAdlerian — 4 years ago(May 01, 2021 07:11 AM)
Yes.
I have done that numerous times.
I have a long history of working with criminals and I have known lots of very good looking women. I don't know many virtuous ones and I do not deal with anyone who is into shady activities.
I once turned down a woman who looked like Demi Moore because she was saying a variety of things I didn't care for.
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Platonic_Caveman — 4 years ago(May 01, 2021 07:46 AM)
Hmmm. I can see if a person is very goodlooking, but completely obnoxious, that's a turn off right there. No sex.
But I'm talking about a nice lady, who you just meet. You obviously don't love her.
Would you not just have sex for the physical act alone?
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TheAdlerian — 4 years ago(May 01, 2021 03:04 PM)
I know what you mean.
However, I have met very few "nice ladies" especially ones who are promiscuous.
Female psychos will "love bomb" and guy out of nowhere and literally every time it has nothing to do with liking the person they are targeting.
I've had this happen numerous times and the type of woman always has some plan for me rather than is excited and joyous.
In my opinion, women are men, there's very little difference. Most men are like beta monkeys, always trying to take something, steal, get cheap self-esteem from some petty act, etc and women are no different. So, I am not inclined to be interested in much the same way that I'm not inclined to be interested in men. -
Platonic_Caveman — 4 years ago(May 03, 2021 02:07 AM)
What do you think of this though:
We all know women will sell sex for money. It's not only the fact that almost all prostitutes are female. (Sure there are male sex workers but their clients are always men.)
But we know women sleep with men to find a mate who will support her. And it's almost always the man who buys dinner because he's knows he'll get something in return.
Yeah, there are a few gigolos out there. But there are 100 times as many feminine gold diggers. lol.
So don't women use sex in a calculated sense? Like you said, they have a plan for you.
What man sleeps with a woman with the goal of marriage in mind? We don't do that. It's just casual and for the moment. But the woman wants to put her hooks in you.
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