She was my first (lesbian) crush
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Soodinum — 13 years ago(September 09, 2012 05:37 PM)
Where did she say 'sexual'? The mature sexual urges and sexual attraction don't just turn up without any precursor at puberty; like more physical aspects of humans, those aspects of us exists prior to puberty in a more innocent, less developed and less complex form.
Many little boys or girls develop quite a fascination with a friend of the opposite sex as children; if that can happen with children who grow to be heterosexual, then I guess it's possible for it to happen to children who grow up to be homosexual.
But to label an attraction that BECOMES sexual in nature later on as sexual in its earlier form is like calling an egg an eagle.
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Soodinum — 13 years ago(September 10, 2012 10:46 AM)
Good point, though I think the OP meant 'lesbian' at that point to highlight she was a girl feeling very attracted to another girl, as opposed to a boy; initially (as she describes) there is fascination and personality-based attraction, but no mention of a sexual component. And now she is viewing that past time through the lens of a later discovery regarding her sexuality (once she had matured).
I DO see your what you're saying, I just think that's a misreading of what she intended to say.
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daffodil54 — 13 years ago(March 31, 2013 09:02 AM)
I had sexual urges when I was 6/7. I did not know exactly what that was, but I know touching myself can give me pleasure. and the fairy-tales(and a variety of things) seem to 'focus' on sexual love.
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verahta — 11 years ago(February 04, 2015 02:51 AM)
I started wanking off in third grade after accidentally discovering it. I had no idea there was a word for it or that I wasn't the only person in the world who did it. A year later in 4th grade we had sex-ed class and I was amazed to find out what I did had a name and everyone else did it too. No I was not abused. My point is that kids discover themselves over time, it isn't like a switch gets flipped one random day. Its a long-term process and journey.
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asia-13 — 13 years ago(December 12, 2012 07:22 PM)
Why are we EVEN talking about a lesbian crush at 8 years old?!!!
Disgusting.
And considering this was the only post this person made I'm assuming they're trolling. Or I just had the urge to jump on IMDB out of nowhere and share it with the world.
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iriahwhittington-1 — 13 years ago(February 23, 2013 05:13 PM)
I don't know where you people are getting this idea that you can't be sexually attracted to someone at an early age without having been sexually abused. Just because you weren't aware of your feelings at that age don't assume someone else wasn't. As for the lesbian/straight side of it it's basically irrelevant because attraction is attraction plain and simple and we are born with the ability to be attracted to whomever we are attracted to male or female. I was in first grade when I developed a crush on a high school girl and for the record I'm male and I wasn't sexually abused so get over your preconceived notions of the world because not everything in the human experience will fit into whatever tiny box you have yourself trapped in.
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lukas1985 — 10 years ago(June 24, 2015 03:05 PM)
She was my first childhood celeb crush (non lesbian) tooand about the same age. I was obsessed with Vada, her character in My Girl. She was so cool and interesting.
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doomdominion — 10 years ago(December 28, 2015 05:10 PM)
Even if a straight person told me they had a crush on someone when they were young, I'd still find if damn weird. Unless I knew them since we were children.
Just because you're gay, lesbian, straight, bisexual, transexual; doesn't mean the world has to hear how horny you were about someone. It's not classy.
